PSA- Living on the Edge - Subway Safety

Last week a woman lost her life because of following one bad decision with an even worse decision.
If you live in New York City you may have seen the story in the news.

From what I have gathered, she dropped her bag and it fell on the train tracks.
Then she went down on to the tracks to get it back.

Her first bad decision was to be standing so close to the edge of the train station platform.
If she had been standing the recommended three feet away from the edge, her bag would most likely not have fallen on to the tracks. It would have fallen on the platform and it would have been a simple matter to pick it up.

Her second bad decision is obvious to all of us.

Too often we make decisions without fully considering the possible consequences to ourselves and to others.

I feel sad for this woman and for her family. I am angry at this woman as well. She made an ignorant decision and followed it up with a stupid one.

She overvalued her property and undervalued her life.

How about you? Do you have your priorities straight?

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Bad boys and Nice Guys

Are you a Nice Guy?

Well stop being so nice.

The problem for Nice Guys is that women say they want to be respected but then turn around and date a Bad boy.

The reason bad boys get more action is simple.

Bad boys are willing to provoke women and tell women that having sex is a great thing they should be doing together.

Women want sex as much as men, but most are not willing to be the provocateur.

Bad boys are really good at making women feel its o.k. to be wild and enjoy sex.

I think what happens is real Nice Guys are more about respecting a woman then sexing her and many women care more about sex then respect.

Consider women that are willing to play the role of Jump Off.

This is the problem I see with women who refuse to take leadership in this arena.

I do not think anyone should be treated as nothing but a tool to get off.

Well, I doubt many men really mind this role for themselves, but women should be careful about accepting this role due to what it teaches men; that its o.k. to have sex with and not care about a woman's feelings.

See, men are not as emotionally attached to sex as women tend to be.

Women who attempt to act like a man's equal in this I think are hurting themselves and womankind.

I can see why women would prefer to be used by a Bad boy, since they can depend on this guy not getting emotionally attached.

Now so its clear to you Nice Guys, if she is dating Bad boys it means she is not ready for a Real commitment.

Or

Here is this other theory I been thinking about.

I call it the Double Chase Theory.

The way I see it in this scenario, a woman needs to be able to chase the man as well as be chased.

The way it plays out is that the Bad boy chases her for her body, but not her heart.

She in turn then starts to chase him for his heart.

This way both have the opportunity to chase and be chased.

Both become predator and prey.

Nice Guys with a focus on winning her heart are already offering theirs and do not allow the woman an opportunity to be the chaser.

So what's a Nice Guy to do?

What's your priority, to establish a relationship or to just get laid?

My current thinking is that you avoid trying to establish a relationship.

If she wants one then let that be her opportunity to chase to win your heart.

For now if your a Nice Guy, I say just give her a warm smile and let her know you like her and want to spend quality time, then kiss her the first chance you get.

Offer her your body but make her earn your heart.

Decision2Love tweet rants III

I think women are confused as to what it means to play "hard to get."

Playing "hard to get" should Not mean refusing to have conversations with men and getting to know them as an individual.

It should mean waiting until you know them before you take the step that makes you intimate partners.

So a woman can encourage a man to communicate with her and even become friends and still be "hard to get."

Too many women think "hard to get" means waiting until a man shows up with original charismatic lines (read Swagger) b4 she gives it up.

Sorry ladies, if all a man needs is the right Swagger to get you in his bed, then you are NOT "hard to get."

Three parts to a Man - Mind, Body and Soul

Mind - craves Knowledge. Teach him.

Body - craves Touch. Hold him.

Soul - craves Love. Lead him.

WHAT HAPPENS IN HEAVEN - A friend shared this story with me

WHAT HAPPENS IN HEAVEN

This is one of the nicest e-mails I have seen and is so true:

I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around. We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, 'This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received. '

I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.

Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section.

The angel then said to me, ' This is the Packaging and Delivery Section. Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them. ' I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for delivery to Earth.

Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing. 'This is the Acknowledgment Section,' my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He seemed embarrassed. 'How is it that there is no work going on here?' I asked.

'So sad,' the angel sighed. 'After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgments.'

'How does one acknowledge God's blessings? ' I asked.

'Simple,' the angel answered. Just say, ' Thank you, Lord. '

'What blessings should they acknowledge? ' I asked.

'If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of this world. If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the world 's wealthy.'

'And if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity. '

'If you woke up this morning with more health than illness ... You are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day.'

'If you have never experienced the fear in battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation .. You are ahead of 700 million people in the world. '

'If you can attend a place of worship without the fear of harassment, arrest, torture or death you are envied by, and more blessed than, three billion people in the world.. '

'If your parents are still alive and still married ..you are very rare. '

'If you can hold your head up and smile, you are not the norm, you're unique to all those in doubt and despair. '
Ok, what now? How can I start?

If you can read this message, you just received a double blessing in that someone was thinking of you as very special and you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world who cannot read at all.

Have a good day, count your blessings, and if you care to, pass this along to remind everyone else how blessed we all are.

Decision2Love tweet rants II

When u view Love from a point of scarcity your instinct is to cling to any signs of Love you see.
12:47 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

But when you view Love from a point of abundance you realize its ok to be alone with yourself.
12:49 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

We need to understand that Loving others is, or should be, natural to us.
12:52 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

We cannot stop the one we want to build with from being inspired to Love others.
12:56 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

All we can do is build a strong foundation TOGETHER with them, maintain it and have Faith in what we have built.
12:59 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

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To all u indie artists, ur relationship with ur fans is the diff btween staying hungry or eating a three course meal!
12:16 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

Are you using all that is available to build that connection?
12:18 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

When u take the time to build that foundation with ur loyal fans, they will be your vanguard!
12:21 PM Oct 11th from mobile web

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A strong foundation is vital to a skyscraper. When you reach for the sky, be sure of your foundation.
10:53 PM Oct 10th from web

If you want to build with someone, understand that to build a foundation you must begin with a conversation.
10:54 PM Oct 10th from web

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Listening to - Natasha Bedingfield - Soulmate http://bit.ly/MDnLR
12:21 PM Oct 6th from web

"Who knows how to Love you without being told." That unrealistic expectation is why your alone. Some teaching is always required!
12:22 PM Oct 6th from web

I try to keep my distance from two types of people - those who refuse to teach and those who refuse to learn. Explains a lot. =/
12:24 PM Oct 6th from web

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On more then one occasion I have heard women joke that they can tell within 5 seconds of meeting a guy whether he is gonna get sum 2nite.
5:58 PM Oct 5th from web

Is this true ladies?
5:58 PM Oct 5th from web

The other day a woman complained that the word Love was too important a word to be used so often, so casually.
5:59 PM Oct 5th from web

Ladies, do you agree?
6:00 PM Oct 5th from web

Ok ladies, what about the entryway to your womb, is that important? Should that be offered so casually?
6:02 PM Oct 5th from web

Lets make a deal. I will not judge you for how quickly you open your legs and you will not judge me for how quickly I open my heart. Deal?
6:03 PM Oct 5th from web

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I've learned that it doesn't matter if you did nothing wrong. You can still be blamed for breaking someone's heart. =/
5:06 PM Oct 5th from web

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I Love You! Practice Love's dance daily. Eventually you'll learn all the steps and will be able to tango with the best. ;)
10:00 AM Oct 1st from web

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A lot of intense heat without any ingredients just leads to a burnt pot.
10:34 AM Sep 29th from web

If you don't know what the recipe is, get a cookbook.
10:36 AM Sep 29th from web

The ability to turn on the stove doesn't make you a chef.
10:37 AM Sep 29th from web

If the recipe says you need to let it simmer, then putting the heat on blast makes you an idiot!
10:45 AM Sep 29th from web

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